I’ve been back in the USA for nearly two weeks now and I find myself thinking and talking about my experience in Japan constantly. I find returning back into a lifestyle that I was once accostomed to as new and strange. I now ride a car rather than a bicycle, shop in a mega-sized grocery store rather than various small shops and eat substantially less rice, sushi and ramen. Those are a give. But more to the core of this feeling of surreality that I’ve been feeling over the last two weeks–it’s the realization of just how similar some things are against just how different other things are. Some might call it “reverse culture shock,” but I’m used to the feeling–it’s just the strangeness of coming home.

It’s quite difficult to articulate these realizations.  Over the last year I’ve been able to begin to understand that there are similar ways to achieve the same things. I mean this especially in regard to the general way that people treat each other. My home country and Japan have very different ideas of what is polite and how to carry oneself to attain respect. But somehow, over the year I began to realize and understand these differences as normal.

There are countless people, places are events that will remain in my memory. Strangers who helped me when I was lost, Japanese friends that helped me find the people and places that would make my stay enjoyable, people from the university who went out of their way to help me, and teachers that were enthusiastic and excelled at what they did. And at that point, it’s apparent that these kind of people will be wherever you go if you take a chance and leave what is comfortable and every-day.

That’s what Japan was for me–leaving what was comfortable and every day. I think I changed a lot because of it.

So, at that I will wrap up my last entry by detailing some of the things I learned:

1. In Japan, most of the time people will be decent when you get lost and do their best to help you find your way again.
2. Eating ramen more than once in the same day is a very bad idea. The same goes for Japanese curry, yet not sushi.
3. One should not bicycle when extremely tired or under the influence of sake.
4. It’s easier to work around the words you do not know than to give up on expressing a thought.
5. Finding a small locally owned and frequented  eating or drinking establishment to visit often is one of the best things one can do for their language skills. But it’s also the best way to find out about local events and history.
6. Sometimes coming home feels stranger than leaving.

I cannot recommend taking the option to do study abroad enough.

I look forward to arriving back in Edinburgh. I thoroughly enjoyed my time in Okayama and sincerely hope to be able to return to Japan in the future.

I’m going to have to throw myself back into English life and fight just as hard to be happy there as I have here. Something tells me that, despite at the moment not wanting to go back, it might just end up being ok though. If I could do it in Germany I can do it anywhere.

I can’t stress enough how much I would recommend a year abroad to everyone. No matter how basic your language skills are, you will be able to gain from the experience in countless ways. Going abroad whilst you study is so much easier than waiting until you have a job, and so much cheaper than participating on a gap year program. Please do it! I can honestly say I have no regrets.

Things I’ve learned;

-Live life to the fullest. There is always more to learn no matter how hard you try, so sometimes you just have to let go and enjoy things through your limitations, rather than holding back until you feel ready.

-Home is not a place; it is the people you love.

Modern art on the Österberg

A friend of mine decided it would be a good idea for a load of us to climb Tuebingen’s massive hill and make giant shapes with our bodies. In principle it sounded random, on the facebook group it looked possible (30 people said they’d come), and in reality it was just about do-able, despite only Fifteen of us turning up. After climb halfway up we set to work. The situation quickly descended into chaos as everyone loudly began trying to move people into positions they considered would most look good from 5 miles away. I wisely decided to obey and sit meekly in the sunshine, laughing at the confusion. It was a brilliant afternoon of wine-fuelled hyperactivity; shrieking at the poo we ended up sitting in, running from various insects, and rolling down the hill, followed by a trip to the pub. The afternoon was so much fun that it felt surreal, and I remember at one point thinking it was too good to be true. Inevitably reality kicked in…

 5 hours later, merrily sipping my takeaway Pina-colada (God bless Germany), I stumbled back to my accommodation. I arrived at the giant gate and began fumbling around for my key. Perplexed, I carefully placed my drink on the ground and began a more thorough root around my bag. Panicking, I emptied it onto the pavement and knelt around my belongings, searching through them. I had done it again. I had lost my key. AGAIN. I was in a dark alleyway, desperate for the toilet, at two in the morning with nowhere to sleep for the night.

To be more exact, I was in a dark alleyway, desperate for the toilet, at two in the morning, too drunk to remember about my friend who lives just around the corner. After panicking for about half an hour, dancing around to stay warm and not to wee myself, I remembered this fact and banged on Sarah’s door until she let me in. All ended up not being lost-I’d left my key in the toilet on my corridor- but it was a pretty scary feeling to be on my own in the dark in a foreign country. Even though Tuebingen is a very safe, small town, just because Germany is a “foreign” place everything seemed a lot worse. That’s one piece of advice I can give to people wanting to go on an exchange year; be aware that during your time abroad everything becomes exaggerated, the good times are brilliant, but being away from home makes the bad times worse too.

European Championship

I am a rugby person, having grown up with two brothers playing the sport and therefore also countless crushes on their teammates. Football has always seemed a bit dead as a game in comparison. Despite this, I couldn’t help getting caught up in the football fever that descended on Germany last month, and ended up watching all the games. A deciding factor MAY have been that I wanted to show off my new Germany T-shirt J but nevertheless I cheered as loudly as anyone else, I have to admit it was a lot of fun.

 I thought I’d get beaten up by football hooligans if I watched the games in big crowds. In fact, the opposite was true. I met a lot of great people, and the atmosphere was always friendly. All German fans that I spoke to were critical of their own team when they played badly, for instance, something English people who are really into football never seem to be able to do (come on, the referee isn’t ALWAYS a ******). After each game everyone came out onto the streets cheering and singing football songs, meeting at the Nekar Bridge which always got jam-packed with people dancing around to drummers and waving Germany flags around. The bus company didn’t even try to drive though- they just always cancelled busses on days that Germany was playing! Throughout all of this I didn’t see a single fight or person who was dangerously drunk. It was just an amazing carnival atmosphere, and even people wearing the colours of the other teams that played were welcome. It really was an amazing time and I am so glad to have been in Germany during the competition.

2)      If you play any sport GO TO UNIGAMES, it was one of the most fun things I did all year, even if you don’t play a sport, make something up and go anyway

3)      Make the most of Paddington market on Saturday mornings, I always found something to buy when I went and even if you don’t find anything in the market, that part of Oxford Street is really cool for shopping as well

4)      Obviously it will vary for different degrees but with history I found the history department was very flexible and conducive to help you make the most out of your courses – capitalise on this!

5)      Don’t be sucked in by the postcard lure of Bondi Beach, people who go there are tourists! It’s worth a look, but if you want a real Aussie beach head to Maroubra for some good surf, Coogee for the banter or Manly for a lazy afternoon

6)      Having been up the East coast, beaches around Melbourne and Western Australia, I still think that the best Australian beaches are on the West coast, if you get a chance to do a tour from Perth I would recommend it!

7)      Definitely do the typical hot spots – the east coast, Melbourne, Ayer’s Rock etc but if you can there are some really cool low key towns dotted north and south of Sydney which are really fun and lots to do

8)      Australia is a MASSIVE country and you’ll have your time and money sucked up pretty easily in terms of travelling, but if you can swing it, make the most of New Zealand and Fiji being a short plane trip away, especially if you don’t know when you’ll next be on that side of the world, might as well make the most!

9)      Have a BBQ on the beach for Christmas dinner, cliched but FUN

10)   You’ll be given a bus map during orientation – carry this with you at all times, it will be your bible in Sydney to get you everywhere and anywhere, also buy travel ten bus cards to get around, cheaper!

The most rewarding aspect of an exchange year is the experience of something completely unique; it’s an opportunity which you will never have again. You may travel when you graduate or during the summer, you may go on to work overseas in the future, you may have long holidays abroad – but to live in a foreign country for twelve months and study at a university there is unlikely to be something you will be able to do at any other point in your life. In my experience it wasn’t a holiday or glorified travelling – I built a life in Sydney; a home, a job, university and friends. I urge anyone who wishes to immerse themselves in something alien to apply for an exchange and don’t hold back when you get there.

Academically I am so thankful for the opportunities I had at UNSW. The courses I was able to take were innovative, engaging, challenging and intellectually rewarding. I really feel as if my historical perspective and the way in which I approach topics and discussions was enhanced and diversified a great deal. Some of the assignments involved film reviews or museum evaluations which demanded a completely different set of criteria and I felt I interacted with historical material in a way which forced me to really analyse the way in which we, as historians, present and display our histories, a subject which I am now hugely interested in and pursuing in my spare time. The research project on Japanese Anarchism in particular was a definite highlight and again a subject that I will continue to read about.

The travelling that I got to do was incredible, from the little road trips around Sydney to the final flurry in Fiji, having already spent a year in Australia for my Gap year made absolutely no difference to the amount of places there were to visit – there are still places I want to go to!

All in all I feel that it was an awesome year that was perfectly timed. I was ready to go to Australia again and once again forge a different life in Sydney but I was ready to come back home and come September I will be ready to return to Edinburgh to slog it out for my final year. If you’re up for an exciting, fun filled year that puts you out of your comfort zone and into a world of opportunity – do an exchange, and in my humbled opinion – do it in Australia!

I flew into the mainland but first thing the next day started my Yasawa Island hopping package “the Beach Bum tour” with Awesome Adventures. I would spend 5 days on two islands. Woohoo. The first stop was Beachcomber Island which is known as the party island, good start. Welcomed by the shout of “BULA!” the Fijian greeting (which simply must be reciprocated with as much gusto) and Hawaiian t-shirt wearing, banjo playing Fijian’s it wasn’t hard to see that I had made the right choice! Crystal blue water, white sand and a temp of around 30 degrees, I’ll take that. The accommodation was a dorm of bunk beds that slept 90 people! Sounds gross I know but it really wasn’t bad at all actually, I’ve stayed in A LOT worse, and because a few beds were spare it wasn’t too crowded or anything. My days were spent lounging on the beach, hanging out with a group of girls and a couple of guys that I had met over a friendly game of volleyball. Evenings is what Beachcomber is all about really. After an amazing buffet each night (all meals are included in the package) we moved onto the bar for the ‘Bula dance’ and a whole lot of fun.

After two days on Beachcomber I moved onto Manta Ray Island which was two hours north on the ferry, bid farewell to the girls but the boys I had met had the same itinerary as me so hung out with them for the rest of the week. Manta Ray was another gem. The beach bar was surrounded by massive hammocks and the dorm in the midst of the forest. The restaurant and main bar was situated on the hill so the meals were had whilst overlooking an amazing view. The food was amazing again (although we did hear a couple of horror stories of other Island food!), a massive buffet of salads and fresh fruit (for me the vegetarian! For meat lovers there is plenty as well!). One morning I opted to go on a trip to one of the local villages, Soso. A quick boat trip away, four of us were greeted by Va who showed us round her village. We met the children at the school, were sung to by the kindergarten, met the chief, bought some local crafts and basically just wondered around learning about their village which was really awesome, I loved it. And everyone was so friendly, I swear Fijian people and the nicest people I’ve ever come across, there is always a big “BULA” waiting for you where ever you go and so many smiles! For one of the evenings some of the people from Soso village came over to perform traditional dances for the people staying at Manta Ray which was really good fun! Everyone got up and had a boogie at the end, and the night was finished off with some Cava (a traditional ritual of drinking a root tree drink) followed by drinks on the beach.

Before I knew it, as is usually the way, it was time say goodbye and head back to the mainland for an early flight the next day back to Auckland followed by an evening flight to London, Heathrow (literally longest day of my life!). I was finally on my way home; it was ok now though because I had a tan and A LOT of freckles.

From Auckland we headed straight to the Bay of the Pigs, arriving in the evening for a group meal with the tour group and some drinks. There were some really nice people on the tour and the guide was a good laugh so it was perfect for little ole me travelling on my own! In these scenarios you’re never really alone and you’re surrounded by people who are looking for the same experience as you. The next day one of the options was a day tour which I chose. We covered about 450k that day looking at everything from rare Kaori trees, cruising on 90 mile beach, sand boarding the dunes, stopping off for some traditional “fush and chups” in the afternoon before heading back to our accommodation.

The next day we made our way to Waitomo where I did black water rafting in the underground caves there which was definitely one of the most amazing things I have ever done. All kitted up in sexy wetsuits and a head torch, in a group of 6, we headed to deepest, darkest depths of Waitomo caves crouching, crawling, swimming, shivering, floating, stumbling through the natural path of the cave system. It was absolutely incredible, freezing, but incredible! At one point we floated on our rubber rings and there was about 3 inches between us and the cave ‘ceiling’, definitely not one for the claustrophobic! We jumped off waterfalls, spotted glow worms and ate their famous chocolate fish whilst standing in a huge lit up enclave. A cup of warm soup and bagel after went down a treat soon followed by a pizza party back at our accommodation and a great night in the local pub.

Next on the list was Rotorua, the cultural capital of New Zealand and pretty much the reason why I wanted to go to NZ in the first place – zorbing. You jump into an inflatable ball which is a similar size to a Vauxell Corsa I would say, they put a bit of warm water in with you (more fun) and then push you down a hill. YES, it is as fun as it sounds! Sooooooooo good, my only regret is that I couldn’t afford to do it more than once! In the evening most of the tour group opted to go to a traditional Maori feast which is cooked in the hot springs of Roturua, after this there is a performance of Maori song and dance including the infamous Haka. The food was immense and the performance was really cool and we got to have a go at a few of their moves which was fun!

The next day we headed back to Auckland and my part of the tour was over whilst others in the group continued on. I flew to Fiji the next day.

Having worked hard to get all my assignments in early so that I would get them back and marked before I left paid off, and I was pleased with my marks as well. A test on Wednesday afternoon signified my final academic commitment to UNSW and then I found myself on the home stretch.

Thursday I flew to Melbourne for a final hurrah. I spent the day at Geelong Grammar, seeing a few old faces that I hadn’t seen in a few years which is always quite fun. Cat, who I met and lived with 4 years ago at the school, met me with her boyfriend in Geelong. She hadn’t been back since we left so it was pretty fun to go round and remember all the things we used to do! After a few drinks at our old haunt, Scottish Chiefs, I went to meet a bunch of girls from the school who I used to teach for dinner which was awesome fun. I’m so glad I made the effort to get everyone together once more and see them all. After that we caught the late train back to Melbourne and made our way to my friends place in Carlton where we were crashing for a couple of nights.

Cat’s boyfriend, Mike, had never been to Australia before and Melbourne was their first stop on their travels so we had a wonder round on Friday showing him the hot spots. Melbourne is not really a city that has your typical “tourist sightseeing highlights”, there is no Opera House equivalent or Harbour bridge to ooo and ah at, it’s not that kind of city really. I think Melbourne is more of a place where you have to spend time in to really appreciate how cool it is. I love the funkyness of Melbourne, Federation Square, the gardens of the Museum and exterior of RMIT in the city – funky architecture, bright colours, and just cool stuff! We had some brunch on Brunswick Street which is still my favourite area of Melbourne I reckon. Then we caught a tram to St Kilda, which admittedly is a lot better in the summer when the sun is shining and hot Australian men play volleyball on the beach, but nevertheless we had a nice afternoon browsing the AMAZING bakeries they have there and some sale shopping. Late afternoon we headed back into Melbourne for drinks, a BBQ at a friend’s place, then more drinks, a final night out on the town – yay.

Saturday morning I headed back to Geelong to fly to Sydney for a dinner I had to get back for. A dinner at the epic Russian restaurant I’ve written about before – it was just as fun, just as delicious and just as drunken. Awesome. Sunday night was a big house party at ours which Cat and Mike were able to make after flying from Melbourne that afternoon, so that was really cool to introduce Cat to people and show her where I’d been living etc.

And now it’s Monday night and tomorrow I am leaving on a jet plane, don’t know when I’ll be back again.

I’m going to continue this entry in a questionnaire format, as a memory for me and to avoid the inevitable slide into cheesiness.

Best day-    Final Sunday BBQ in Italy out in the countryside with my flatmates and

                    friends.

Worst day-  1^st November, the day after Meredith Kercher was killed in Perugia, it 

                    was a terrible tragedy, an awful shock, and far too close to home.

Best Night- Cadiz Carneval. After a day of exams, we hopped on the bus to an all

                    night carneval dressed as tigers.

                   The first big dinner at my flat in Italy, when I realised what a sociable,     

                   And slightly wild flat this was going to be.

Worst night- 6^th January 2008. When you come back after Christmas to an empty flat

                     with no food, ring somebody and go out, DON’T sit in on your own.

Most stressful moment- 1^st public oral exam in Italy. 100 people listening to you,

                                       attempting to blag in a foreign language about something that

                                       you suddenly realise you know very little about.

Biggest achievement- Teaching English to 25 reluctant, too-cool-for-art skool 17year

                                    olds, after which I truly believe I could enthusiastically lend

myself to any situation.

Worst hangover-         It’s a toss up between post Halloween crawling into bed at

                                    8.30am only to wake 10hours later feeling like I’d been run

                                    over by a train, and post toga party where I was put into bed

                                    hilariously joking I was already there (as I was wearing my

                                    bedsheet…) I know, terrible, I paid for this comment later…for

                                    weeks later.

Best view- The Alhambra from the roof terrace of a hidden away teteria in the

                  Albayzin, or the view from my flat living room window of the Arena

                  where they perform the Opera, particularly spectacular the night of a huge              hail storm in June….yes, June.

Longest queue at an Internaional Office- 2 hours, Granada

Favourite drink- Verona’s Spritz Aperol just takes over the edge over Granada’s tinto

                           de verano.

Favourite people- Alberto, Kepler, Lorenzo, Daniel, Federica, Macarena for the

                             natives and Alice,Yaelle, Silvia, Lisa and Sophie for some of us lot.

Least favourite people- No comment, there’s always people you meet once and are

                                     glad that your situation means you needn’t cross paths again.

Most embarrassing moment- mistaking wet wipe toilet roll for cleansing wipes, before

                                                insisting that I’d keep them in my room.

Quote of the year- È una festa, non è che deve seguire una logica. It translates as, It’s

                              a party, not something that has to follow any logic.

I think I’ll leave it with that. An unforgettable experience with highs far outweighing lows. I’ll be back in Spain and Italy before too long, just got some wee tests at the end of next year to get through and I’m good to go again. But for now, I’m happy here, with a bowl of strawberries watching Andy Murray. Over and out.

Thankfully, all’s changed for the better now. He went back to Naples for a couple of weeks and came back a changed man, and I’d probably changed to, accepting him rather than picking up on every idiosyncrasy. He’s gone from being the one that eats all the food, to the ones that buys it all, so there are always munchies around aperitivo time. It makes me giggle to go into the laundry room to see pairs of tights, leotards and a jockstrap (I kid you not) hanging up to dry. Not one to mince his words, he always answers the door with, “Who are you? How many are you? What do you want?!” Luckily I’d warned friends of this, as not surprisingly, he sounds fairly menacing from outside on the street. On seeing him though, menacing would never been an adjective that entered your head. If you are female you’re likely to be greeted with a sweeping bow before he turns to me to ask, “And who is this? She’s the most beautiful girl in all of Verona. Why have I never seen her before?” which is very flattering, if a little overwhelming. He stands at about 5”7, with really long arms and legs and a nose like Napoleon (his words, not mine). When I first met him, he told me that his form is not aesthetically pleasing but is perfect for a classical dancer. It’s not that he’s aesthetically displeasing, but off stage he does look fairly out of proportion. He’s rehearsing for Aida at the moment, which starts at the Arena in a couple of weeks, and I’m really excited about going to see it. There’s something a bit glamorous about going to see a friend dancing at the opera in Verona, and though I never thought I’d say it, I’ll miss his strange little ways when I leave.